I can’t explain EXACTLY why this upsets me. The subtle sexism always irritates me like a pin constantly poking at the back of my neck. The insulting of women’s decisions. The way women are mocked for liking something popular. The fact there is, of course, no male equivalent.
"Haha look at the ridiculous, unoriginal tattoos girls get! You can just create a form for it! Silly bitches!"
(Although appropriative tattoos like a dream catcher or a Chinese symbol on white people CAN go to hell forever…)
mysterygirl1306 said: So I was in an abusive relationship both physically and mentally, he would call me a stupid, fat , bitch, he'd call me a cunt or a whore, and he pushed me up against a wall and choked me and told me if I leave him then he'll shoot me and the only way I'll leave is in a body bag, and yesterday he apologized for everything and asked me to take him back and he will never do it again and I don't know what to say he was my first boyfriend and my first love I'm just really confused please help?
He called you horrible names. He assaulted you. He threatened to murder you. He claimed to be sorry, claimed he’ll never do it again, but what if that’s not true? He’s already proven that he’s a dangerous person. He’s already proven that he is capable of abuse, of treating you horribly, of being a violent person. You don’t owe him a second chance. His treatment of you and subsequent “apologies” and “promises” to never do that stuff again make him fit the profile of a typical abuser, who follow a cycle of honeymoon stage → abuse → apology → honeymoon stage, etc. Check out the image below for a better illustration of the cycle of abuse.
You should definitely NOT let this guy back into your life. You deserve a partner who would never even think about treating someone the way he treated you. You deserve a partner who respects your wishes and words, who would never hurt you or call you names, who can handle strong emotions like anger without resorting to violence or threats, and who PROTECTS you from harm, not causes harm to you. Take time to yourself for some self-care and self-love and work on building your own self-esteem and self-confidence. You’ll find a new, better partner when you have spent time improving your own character. Take care, dear.
Why is Vin Diesel looking down? Is he worried he’s gonna forget his line?
Vin Diesel asked the director his inspiration for every line he did and did multiple takes until he was satisfied. He also recorded the line over 1,000 times and also recorded his lines in Mandarin, Portuguese, French, and Spanish so they could use his real voice in those versions. He’s looking at his lines because Vin Diesel is a dedicated motherfucking professional.